Saturday, April 22, 2017
A Collective Happiness List, by 39 contributors
Happiness is having multiple unabridged dictionaries in my room
Happiness is playing a song without missing a note, and maybe playing some new notes that are just right
Happiness is walking through the woods, grateful for my feet, my eyes, ears, and breath
Happiness is removing stones from a garden plot and readying soil for spring planting
Happiness is when my children are happy, when they do not fear, when they honor my advice, when they do not live in my house, when they do live just down the block
Happiness is eating a succulent mango, and avocado-on-toast
Happiness is seeing a smile on your face, what a gift that is
Happiness is staying home when I feel like it and going to work when I want to
Happiness is a slight change in the day that I notice but don't cling to
Happiness is tossing a blue Frisbee
Happiness is finding just the right size box for sending a small pile of gifts out in the mail
Happiness is knowing that I have enough time to really enjoy what I am doing
Happiness is getting words on the page that reflect how I feel and what I think
Happiness is setting a boundary that doesn't harm another person
Happiness is knowing that my mother loved me
Happiness is the moment I realize that I have given everything I have to give
Happiness is going to the edge and a little bit over, losing balance just enough to fall but not crash and burn
Happiness is the moment when I see the line of your back, from neck to waist, and it undoes me
Happiness is when I see you at the top of the stairs, pulling on your socks and boots, and just after that instant of intoxication I find myself relinquishing . . . dissolving
Happiness is when chaos is nullified and order takes its place
Happiness is when dust and dirt are removed and cleanliness reigns
Happiness is accepting what is, and what might be
Happiness is looking out the window the same second a woodpecker appears
Happiness is having no particular place to go but still going anyway
Happiness is watching a muted football game while listening to a Verdi opera
Happiness is a new haiku — yours or mine
Happiness is rain, just enough, followed by sun
Happiness is when the primrose decides — finally — to re-bloom
Happiness is knowing there is enough yummy leftover casserole for tonight's supper
Happiness is finding a parking spot right where I need it
Happiness is feeling arms around my legs — a surprise hug from my five-year-old grandson
Happiness is beating my youngest sister in a game of Words With Friends
Happiness is riding my bike downtown, no parking worries
Happiness is opening the computer and finding an e-mail from a young friend in Vietnam
Happiness is discovering I think I can do better — and then doing better
Happiness is plowing through dozens of cookbooks, food magazines, and recipe cards and stumbling upon something unexpected
Happiness is finding the last two scoops of coffee — enough for one morning cup
Happiness is going to the mailbox and seeing a handwritten letter from my sister
Happiness is seeing the tulip buds in the garden and knowing I'll be there tomorrow to see them bloom
Happiness is seeing deer hopping over a fallen log
Happiness is spending time with a good friend, in a quiet restaurant booth
Happiness is having a breakthrough in my thoughts and then sharing that with someone who really understands
Happiness is realizing that it doesn't matter why something makes me happy, it's enough that it just does
Happiness is being woken up by my granddaughter and her huge stuffed Easter bunny
Happiness is drawing stick figures on the sidewalk with egg-shaped chalk
Happiness is having at least four murder mysteries sitting on my shelf, waiting for me
Happiness is greeting strangers with a smile and a few friendly words, and realizing that this is a good trait I've inherited from my father
Happiness is knowing I won't have to wear heavy wool socks again for at least six months
Happiness is a good hair day
Happiness is rain on the roof, a cat in your lap, a new notebook, and a working pen
Happiness is knowing the maidenhair fern will soon re-emerge
Happiness is sloshing through mud and not caring that my shoes are getting dirty
Happiness is walking across the grass and realizing that I'm no longer sinking in mud
Happiness is listening to Brazilian music and watching children dancing
Happiness is not something I take for granted
Happiness is finishing a project I've been working on for months and discovering that I like the way it turned out
Happiness is eating a wonderful piece of Swiss chocolate that has a surprise filling of raspberry jelly
Happiness is finding that someone else has done the laundry, and left it — clean and folded — on top of the dryer
Happiness is the sight of buds opening on the maple, and the unexpected appearance of tulips
Happiness is being the favorite uncle
Happiness is seeing my lover's smiles after a month of frowns
Happiness is knowing that everyone who should be home, and asleep in bed, is
Happiness is the smell of lemons
Happiness is sitting on the porch in the sunshine, drinking bubble tea
Happiness is when a friend recommends an author and I read the first book in a series, like it, and discover that there are eight more books I can now read
Happiness is when a postcard arrives in the mail and at first I can't decipher the signature so I have no idea who sent it, but then I look again and it all becomes clear and I re-read the message and like it even more the second time around
Happiness is when the oatmeal turns out just right and I find a ripe banana in the fruit bowl
Happiness is sitting on the beach, watching the sunset, on a glorious Florida beach . . . in February
Happiness is finding the orange and grey striped socks that match my sweater perfectly
Happiness is seeing how the radish sprouts on my window sill stand up tall, to greet the sun
Happiness is my dog, always at my feet wanting a treat, but I believe it's really love she wants; she can't fool me
Happiness is when my students are rowdy and appreciate my humor and we all laugh together
Happiness is when my brother calls on the telephone and we laugh all the way to our childhood
Happiness is seeing a chipmunk and a sparrow drinking together at the bird bath
Happiness is receiving a last minute invitation to join a friend at the movie theatre
Happiness is finding my car in the parking lot at Wegmans
Happiness is the slightly downhill part of a path toward the end of my seven-mile run, where I feel fast and invincible
Happiness is when I have the house (and a whole day) to myself, to do whatever it is I need to do
Happiness is a 10-year-old boy who thinks he is too old to do so, forget himself and grab my hand and pull me across the room
Happiness is laughing with friends over shared mistakes
Happiness is found in the little ritual of making coffee in the morning with my one-cup French press
Happiness is looking forward to going camping again this summer with dear friends
Happiness is spending time with my energetic young granddaughter when she comes to visit
Happiness is going for a morning walk without feeling any back pain
Happiness is seeing a smile on a stranger's face
Happiness is pulling up to the drive-through window at Burger King
Happiness is the purple hyacinths in full bloom outside my window
Happiness is watching a mother robin bring long blades of grass to add to the nest she's building
Happiness is hearing my vet say "she's doing great" when I bring my 15-year-old cat in for her annual check-up
Happiness is feeling a sneeze coming on but before it arrives it goes away
Happiness is making a to-do list for the day and everything on it is something I am looking forward to doing
Happiness is waking up in the middle of the night with a big worry and figuring out a solution right away, and the worry disappears
Happiness is making people laugh, especially when I mean to
Happiness is the feel of a pen in my hand as it moves along the page
Happiness is sitting downstairs reading while my darling takes a nap upstairs
Happiness is watching and listening to a thunderstorm from indoors where it's safe and dry
Happiness is matching a sock in the laundry, or finding a missing glove
Happiness is my solitude, broken only by birds
Happiness is sharing my great joys and discoveries in writing with other writers
Happiness is being understood, despite our differences
Happiness is when my 85-year-old mother makes a great joke
Happiness is when I stop to listen to my heart beat and I know I'm not just dreaming
Happiness is when the stars line up and I can count them forever
Happiness is when I feel my inner demons disappearing
Happiness is when I make soup and my grandmother smiles upon me
Happiness is when I am aching for the words just before they arrive, when they could be anything . . . just the right thing to sweep me off my feet
Happiness is when the sun sets on my lashes and the warmth stays on just a smidgen longer than the light before it
Happiness is when I am dreaming of something new, or attending to something ancient — 865th to touch the wood of this bassinet
Happiness is forgetting hard times while in a snuggle with my pig, with his warm breathy snout against my face, and his happy grunts
Happiness is people-watching in a new spot
Happiness is learning what I have in common with those I love
Happiness is finally completing a long lost project
Happiness is seeing an enormous green snake on the street and thinking "oh no," but as I get closer I realize it's my neighbor's garden hose and I think "phew"
Happiness is taking a walk and the first two lines of a haiku find me right away, and then just as I get to my front door the last line comes to me
Happiness is when a small (but strong) inner voice reminds me to look more closely and to feel more deeply
Happiness is noticing the single red tulips growing in odd places all along my street
Happiness is when one baby sleeps through the night and the other one kicks on the inside, and they both do this quietly
Happiness is when I am chatting with some other moms at baby story-time at the library and suddenly there is my son, running at me, ready to hug me — finding me among all the other moms
Happiness is when I'm listening to music on my iPod and the best song of all comes on and it makes me sing out loud
Happiness is when the cookies that I'm baking come out perfectly, neither flattened out nor burned
Happiness is seeing the first sprouts of tomatoes, basil, morning glories, cucumbers, lettuce, musk melon, and moonflowers, all in their starter pots
Happiness is knowing all my loved ones are in good places at the moment and things are going to be okay with them
Happiness is looking around this great wonderful earth and feeling grateful to be alive
Happiness is being in a circle with other writers, everyone recounting moments of happiness
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The people who contributed to this collective happiness list participated in Writing Circles on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Saturday mornings, during the 3rd week of April, 2017
Thank you for sharing your happinesses:
Annie Wexler
Ari Wunderlich
Barbara Anger
Caroline Gates-Lupton
Cheryl Gallien
Chris McNamara
Christine Sanchirico
Daniel Cooper
Daphne Solá
Fran Helmstadter
Gabrielle Vehar
Gwen Daniels
Jannie Lee Lewis
Kim Falstick
Kimberly Zajac
Larry Roberts
Linda Keeler
Liz Burns
Maimouna Phelan
Marty Blue Waters
Mary Louise Church
MaryJane Richmond
Matthew McDonald
Michelle Kornreich
Nancy Osborn
Patti Witten
Peggy Stevens
Peter Ladley
Rob Sullivan
Ross Haarstad
Saskya vanNouhuys
Spike
Stacey Murphy
Sue Crowley
Sue Norvell
Sue Perlgut
Summer Killian
Tara Kane
Zee Zahava